What is your money identity?

emotional freedom techniques human design money sacred money archetypes Mar 07, 2022

I'll be honest, I seem to have soaked up all the emotions that are going around. Some are definitely my own, but some aren't. And I am starting to be able to distinguish those from mine.

In terms of Human Design, I have an 'open' Emotional Centre (also called the Solar Plexus Centre). I am very susceptible to feeling everyone's emotions, very strongly. I am a highly empathetic empath. Ha! Now I understand why I have been feeling how I've been feeling all my life. Now I understand why I was absolutely the perfect victim for my covert narcissistic father and why I always tried to anticipate his every move and every word (but sometimes got it wrong because, as a narcissist, he was so skilled at surprising me (mostly negatively) with a different attitude or phrase or behaviour from what I expected).

Soooo many times, I thought it was me imagining things. Sometimes, even now, I think I actually MANIFEST things just by thinking of them. But actually it's (mostly? always?) me being able to sense at a very deep level what's happening and what's about to happen. (Like my younger daughter being sick in the car on Saturday morning on our way to my in-laws'... Thankfully, I was prepared...)

If you, too, have an 'undefined' or 'open' Emotional Centre, you may be experiencing the same. And you need to know that not only do we feel more of what's around us – we actually amplify it! This article is fascinating.

I know it's a huge privilege but this why I haven't watched or listened to the news for over 2 years (I didn't much before then anyway). And I haven't for the past week either. I ask my husband to give me a summary of what's going on in the world, but I don't watch or listen anything shown in the media. It doesn't serve me, my family or my clients.

This is also why, I now realise, I have been tapping (using EFT, aka Emotional Freedom Techniques) every single day at least once a day for a couple of weeks: to release all the emotions that are mine, and all the emotions that are NOT mine.

And then I always finish with sending love and light to all the people who need it in that moment and beyond.

This is also why the technique/modality of EFT is so dear to my heart and I have been using it consistently for 8 years (for myself, my daughters and my clients). It's my way of supporting people in the best way I can.


EFT Breakthrough Session

If you want to release any of the emotions or feelings you may have been experiencing because of what has been happening in Ukraine or anywhere else in the world, or in your family, or in your life in the distant or recent past, you are invited to release them in a 1:1 EFT Breakthrough Session with me.


Testimonials from EFT clients

'I got over my back issues thanks to EFT! I've never had it that painful before and recover so quickly! The next day I was pain free and had full mobility!'

'Thank you for yesterday's EFT session. You are brilliant at EFT. I did my own tapping session this morning because I needed to explore more and you inspired me to keep going. I realised through today's tapping that yesterday allowed a few layers to peel back. I could see what was underneath and the real heart of the problem. As I tapped, I found another layer underneath that one too. This practice has helped me find the core, the gem, the true pain that was causing so much trouble on the surface. Still much to process but it is so much better. Tapping with you is helping me peel back the layers! It is such a surprise what comes up – it's like my mind just relaxes enough to lower the gate and let me have a little peek at what's really behind those steel doors!'

Yes, that is exactly how it is: tapping on acupressure/acupuncture points relaxes the conscious mind enough that it then lets us access our unconscious mind. And that is where ALL the treasure is!



What is your money identity?

Take the Sacred Money Archetypes® quiz and you will know! Well... you will find out the names of your specific archetypes and the order they are in your money blueprint, and you will get a short description for each. But knowing your full money identity AND why you do what you when it comes to money takes time.

Whatever session or programme you do with me, I ask you to take the quiz, because when I know your money identity, I can help you to the best of my ability in any area, because 'the way you do money is the way you do everything' (Kendall SummerHawk, creator of the programme and quiz). Several different people could ask me the exact same question about money or business, and my reply will be different for each of them, because it will be based on their archetypes

Who are you? What do you prefer? What are your strengths? What are your challenges?

The answers to all these questions need to be taken into account before I answer any of your questions!

This is precisely what fascinates me about the money work I do and the people I work with. Contrary to what you may have read, heard or felt, there is no one-size-fits all when it comes to money (or business or book writing or trauma healing  or even medicine, in my view...).

There isn't ONE way of doing money.

There certainly isn't just MY way of doing money.

There is YOUR way of doing money, based on YOUR archetypes, making the most of YOUR gifts and toning down YOUR challenges as much as you can.

If you would like to find out more about my Sacred Money Archetypes and how they play out in my life, watch this video of the interview I had with my amazing friend, colleague and biz buddy Celine Tytgadt.

If you would like to find out more about the archetypes in general, watch this video of the interview I had with Annette Ferguson, owner of Annette & Co, an accountancy firm that specialises in Profit First. You can also listen on her Financial and Lifestyle Freedom for UK Business Owners Podcast here (Google Podcast), here (Apple Podcasts) or here (Spotify). We spend the first 6 minutes talking about my book-doula work, and the rest of the interview about the Archetypes.


I hope to see you soon in one of my EFT sessions :-) 

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